I got a full sleeve wetsuit. But that was because I knew I would be doing some cold water swims in triathlons...mostly outside our region (Lake Logan in the North Carolina mountains and Ironman Arizona). Full sleeve worked well enough along with a sillicone swim cap worn under the race swim cap to keep me warm swimming 2.4 miles in 63 degree water.
If you are doing tris mostly around here, sleeveless probably should be the way to go. Keep in mind that wetsuit season for tris is limited to the early season and late season races because most races in June, July and August are in water temperatures too warm for wetsuits period.
But with this unseasonably cold winter....I can see why you would think about a full sleeve suit for the Oxbow Tri this year.
And I think you can get arm warmer attachments to go with a sleeveless wetsuit so you have the best of both....you should get some great responses here from others in the forum on what's out there.
First time out...don't recommend ordering online. I got mine at an Ironman y